I have hooked my gf up with other men and she has been somewhat eager to do this. She talks about being with other men and how past encounters that I set her up with would be fun to do again. She has met guys that I have set her up with and within minutes of meeting them she is doing things to them you see in the movies. She always puts on a good show for me and I was wondering how I get her to go over the edge, craving to be a slut, meeting men on her own and doing things with them. I have encouraged her to try things on her own, but she does not seem to let things happen when she is own her own. I love more than anything to be suprised, walk in on her as she is getting fucked hard and wanting it. She has told me in past that she could real easly go over board with this. So How do I push her in that direction????
Bad boys, Bad boys, what you going to do when I come for you?
I don't buy that she could go overboard with it. I think she is just telling you to ease off and let her be her. She might not ever be able to do what you want, and really how greedy can you be? Love her and support her. Thank her for being who she is. If she knows you're behind her and supporting her you're going to get a lot further than by pressuring her. People respond to pleasure not pressure. Good Luck!
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i have been trying to get my girlfiend to sleep with other men she thinks it a hot idea but is scared we do role play alot during sex about me watching her. i have just recently joined a swinger site but she does not know about it. i have a few interested guys how to i tell her or show her the site. she is still scared that it will hurt our reletionship
ty ryan
As I have said 100 times before. Let's suppose she did what you're doing and said she wanted to fuck other guys besides you. Would you feel threatened and scared? So, before you proceed make sure she knows that there is no way this is going to change your opinion of her, or make you love her any less. Take it slow and give her time if it's that important to you. Good Luck!
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Emily,
I have a question that I haven't seen yet and I want your insight. I am a 32 year old black guy, who knows he has bi-tendicies. I love women but I love looking at men with cocks bigger than mine. It's a huge turn on. The only thing is: 1) They must be bigger thaan me. I'm 8 inches and 2) They must be of a different persuasion (white, asian, spanish...anything but black) I would love to see my girlfriend be pleasured by one such person and for me to join in as well. I would totally be into the worship thing, even suck it if necessary but no anal play at all. The way I found out about this fetish of mine is because when I was at the gym one day, one of the guys, who was white, was coming out of the shower. He had to be about 10" long and ultra thick. The sight of it gave me an instant erection, one which I dare say was harder than I've ever been. I turned quickly so as not to attract attention and then I had to hit the shower to relieve myself. After that, I started to do some soul searching just to find out what happened. It took me a while but after a few tests (I've seen blacks with bigger and though a nice turn on, not the same feeling and even 1 asian dude which surprised me and I guess that added to my pleasure) I thought that I was bi with specific qualifications. Also, i am very much into a woman's response which would explain why in my fantasy, wheteher true or not, I would love to see the person I'm with with someone larger than me. I would never approach my significant other with this as I realize it's just a fantasy and one that I may not want to deal with after an event took place but I would like your opinion on anything that I just said as it would help me understand a little more as well as I'm sure excite me a bit that I'm sharing this with another.
P.S. - The white person that I saw in the gym "allowed" me to worship him at his place and I had the most intesne orgasm ever! The whole time he practically berated me and said I am an insult to my race for me "letting him" have a much bigger tool than I. It was fantastic and I will be doing it again with others, if I can!
Thanks for reading, Curious as a mofo
Well... My opinion is this. You seem to have a pretty good handle on what you like. My only problem with any of this is your dishonesty with your significant other. You are what you are. For God's sake, it's 2006. Man up and either tell her or let her go. She is giving her heart to someone that is being dishonest with her about who he is and what he wants/needs. Yes you do have bi tendencies, and yes you do have submissive tendencies also. So what? Look at this site. It isn't as uncommon as you might think. I don't know if I'd just come right out and tell her what you've done because it might really hurt her, but you need to get this part of your life straightened out. You're dancing in quicksand. Good luck!
Hi Emily,
I have been visiting your site now for a few months,I was directed there by a black guy I met in a chatroom,both hubby and I love the site and what it promotes.
Hubby has now got me shaving my pussy,dressing real slutty,I now wear the anklet and have the "Ace of Spades" tatooed on my left shoulder.I have cybered with several guys in chatrooms,and we both feel we are ready to take the next step and find a nice attractive black guy to have fun with.My hubby is himself very big,being over nine inches so we are hoping to find a guy bigger than that,for threesomes,fucking(while hubby takes pics) and hot nites for me and the guy to be alone for fun.
My question to you, is where and how do we begin looking for our ideal partner,we live in the Vegas area,can you advise.
regards...Eve
This site as far as I know has FREE classifieds as part of the service it provides, also you might try Mojo's Message Board site here. There are also services like Alt.com Alt.com - Interracial. And finally I'll post your email address for any BBC to contact you directly.
Bang the hell out of this Vegas Slut with you BBC!
But you'd better send Mojo in some pictures for that favor! :) Good Luck!!
Hello Emily, I am new to this site, I am trying, with some small success, to make my wife into a BBC lover, I already am, and have been with several BBC men, my question is, is there a tattoo symbol that shows that you are an admitted BBC lover? I would love to have the mark tattooed on me and the wife, also where would the tattoo go on the body? Dean
The one that I know about is the classic Black Panther
Although lately I hear that the black "Ace of Spades" is getting used. As far as location, shoulder, arm, forearm, somewhere visible to "give the signal."
dear slut emily are you from IN and do i know you
Nope sorry. :)
do you like fucking lots of guys
Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. Right now I'm finishing up my Masters and I don't have time for anything other than my favorite toys. All toys, no boys, that's me...
Dear Emily,
My wife & I have been gone to a couple nudists resorts recently (3 to be exact). We have never seen black people there except the last time we went. Two well built, very well endowed black guys came up to us and introduced themselves. We all shook hands and were very polite, but as we talked, I started getting an erection (which is a big "party foul" at a nudist camp. My wife looked at me, at my (kind of small) erection and said "you keep looking down at their dicks, don't you?" (which is another party foul). I said "NO" but I have to admit, I couldn't stop looking at their huge penises, I've never seen something like that. I tried not to look, but my didk kept getting harder to a full erection. My wife started pointing and laughing at it. There was no way to hide it. I was so embaraced , turning red, trying to think of things to make it go away. She said in front of them (and some other people close by who I'm sure could hear us), Oh My God...you're turned on by their cocks, aren't you?" I said "NO" and turned and walked away. All of them started laughing and as I walked quickly towards our cabin (with other nudists about) All I could hear was my wife in a very loud voice say I don't think he's ever seen a real man's cock before and I think he liked it..ha ha. I went back to our cabin and my never came back that nght. She admitted to me the next dat that she fuckd those two guys. That made me mad but also turned me on...in a weird way. My question is, do you think I'm gay? And do you think my wife will eventually leave me for a black guy, or someone with a bigger cock? And, is that why she fucked them....because they were so hung?
Thanks....Lee
No Lee I don't think you are gay. You probably have some bi tendencies, and most likely submissive tendencies. My question to you is what does it matter? If their cocks turned you on, if your wife fucking them turned you on, so what? I think you need to talk with your wife about your needs and the way she treated you. If this is what you want, express yourself to her. If not, you'd better do that also before your relationship is damaged forever. But again, no because you got turned on by their big black cocks doesn't make you gay. In my book it makes you pretty normal! :)
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Hi Emily...ages ago there was a thread about ankle bracelets...and the supposed meaning that goes along with them. I can't remember what that was, and the reason I'm asking is that my wife is all of a sudden wearing one. She's not the kind of person that buys jewelry for herself, and has in the distant past had two affairs with black men. I have asked her, in a round about way about another man, and about the new bracelet. She has answered with a no on the first question, and she bought it for herself for the second question. Yes, she probably is telling me the truth, but I wonder about that bracelet. Thanks, B.T.
Well the whole ankle bracelet is more of a "hotwife" thing started by some other web sites. Personally I've never put a whole lot of credence in it, and I also feel it's dangerous since it can send a message that isn't always true. However, the folklore does exist so let's tackle your problem.
I'm not sure exactly what it is your asking. Do you want her to "advertise" with the hopes of getting some more black cock? Or are you concerned about her unfaithful ness? Regardless, if I was you I would explain it to her plainly and clearly. She might be totally unaware of what it means. If she takes it off, I'd say your concerns about unfaithfulness are put to rest. If however, she continues to wear it, I'd say she might be or might not be but she is certainty open to putting the idea "out there." If she continues to wear it, and this is what you want tell her about it. Tell her about how you imagine black guys are thinking about her and how she is essentially telling them her pussy is available and ready for their cocks. Good luck and let us know how it goes!
Emily,
My gf is new to this slut thing. She has always had a wild side to her and now that we are together I have showed her and wanted her to let it go. I told her my deepest fantacy was to watch her with another man. She was surprised and turned on by this. There have been several attempts made and I have got to see her with two different men on two different occasions. Nothing is hottier than watching her have fun and make love to them. I want her to be wild and want to have sex with as many men as she can find, How can I encourage her and support her and show her ways to do just that and know I will always be ther for her??? Jimmy
Maybe tell her? Ok, do this. Write her a letter telling her your deepest feelings. Then go to a club where you encourage her to be a slut, set up a meeting do whatever. In the morning have the letter in a nice envelope next to her on the bed and let her read it by herself. That should do it!
Emily,
I have been married for 5 years now. My wife is a a great slut. Flirting and such. before I met my wife she had a "fuck buddy" that she did many times. She says because they were both "bored at the time." When we started dating she told me a little about him and I found out later they would get together to fuck for fun. We broke up for a while (a month) and I know she fucked him a few more times because she was not happy with me. I got totally pissed off when I found out she was fucking him again. After that we got back together and got married a year later. Since then I fantasize about her fucking him and I would love to have him fuck her again. My problem is that I made such a big negative deal at the time I do not think she will trust me in saying that I want them to fuck. Can you give me some advice?
Yes, let it go. If you want to watch your wife fuck someone else, or fuck someone when you aren't there, take that route. But let this one go. You were right to trust your instincts that she will not trust you. More like she will probably hold it against you. Find someone new for her.
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Hi there Emily.
I jsut found this site and i like it so far.i am reall yinto this life style. I was wondering if you could help me out with somehting. How do i tell my wife that i want to share her with black men without shocking her.I would really like to watch her with black men and also black women,She is very open minded but we havnt done anything yet.How do i tell her that i only want to share her with black men and black women.
Wonderer
Why not show her this site and she how she reacts? Also don't forget Slut Wife Talk. Good Luck!
Dear Emily,
I have known this married woman who works at my bank for over 5 years now. We met on line at a place called ALT.com where she and her husband were looking to meet men since he liked to watch. I took the bait and we met at a gay bar in my town and I asked her husband how he felt about another man being with his lovely wife? He shrugged his shoulders as if it was no big deal. To make a long story short, days later she and I met at a bookstore and I told her I had no desire to have her husband anywhere near us and told her how attracted I was to her. She agreed with me and said she was very attracted to me as well. Anyway, a week or so later she called me and asked me if I would like some company and of course I said yes! I gave he my address and 45 minutes later there she was knocking on my front door. When she entered my home I told her how beautiful she was (5'4", 110 lbs., blonde with blue eyes) and held her close and we kissed. I showed her around my house and finally my bedroom. I asked her if she wanted to make love and she said not yet but if I wanted a blow job she would do that. I smiled, kissed her as she unzipped my fly. soon she was on her knees taking my hard cock into her war, wet mouth. Her oral talents were outstanding and she was taking my 7" to my root without ever gagging. Within 10 minutes I was ready to explode so I warned her and she smiled and said to give her my mother lode. Within seconds I felt it coming up from my nuts and emptied a huge amount of cum in her mouth as she kept up by swallowing all I gave her. I was spent and as I looked down at her she licked her lips and said she loved the taste of my cum. I had just received the best cock sucking of my entire life and I was 47 years old. I later learned we graduated high school the same year from different schools in the same area. Ok, the next time she came over I asked her again if I could make love to her. This time she said sure and I undressed her before she could change her mind. Her breasts were awesome on her petite frame. She had had them enlarged just enough to be perfection. he tight ass looked awesome in her jeans but when I saw it in the flesh I knew I would be rimming it before she went home to her husband. Her pussy was shaved clean and she was going to be all mine. I laid her on my bed, kissed her deeply then began my slow journey down her body until I reached her pussy. I was going to lick this married woman until I had her screaming for me to put my cock inside her. When I parted her legs I discovered her pussy lips were each an inch long and her clitoris was like a pencil erasure. When she finally begged me to fuck her I asked her if a condom was necessary and she said no. 45 minutes later we lay sweating in my bed, exhausted and spent. She said "he" would be coming home soon and that she had to go but we will get together again real soon. Emily this went on for 1 year before we got busted. Our sexual adventures were something you would read in a novel! There was nothing she and I wouldn't try. She even surrendered her virgin anus to me again and again. I thought I had finally found my soul mate and she did as well. We told each other how much we loved one another and that one day we would be together. She was a mom of two and a grandmother of two. Married for 30 years and said it wasn't the right time for her to make a change because it affected so many people. I bought that crap for 4 more years!!!! I believe she will never leave him. What do you think of what I just told you? Do you agree, I should just cut her loose and move on with my life?
Scott
This all sounds a little weird to me. Met at a gay bar?! Anyway, I'm going to tell you the same thing I tell my girlfriends about affairs with married men. Don't ever expect them to tell you the truth, or end their marriage. They are basically very selfish people and cowards. That being said 5 years is a hell of a long time. You have to admit to youself that it's never going to happen. She has pretty much told you as much. So if the sex is good, and you want to stick around for that do it. If you're looking for a partner start looking elsewhere. Sorry but I don't see it any other way. Good Luck!
FOLLOW UP:
Dear Emily,
I didn't realize my email to you would be public knowledge, but I really don't give a shit anymore! This woman has lied to both men in her life for far too long. She took me for a wild sexual spin and I fell in LUST with her. Somehow in my desire to find the perfect relationship, awesome sex as well as respect, love and commitment, I lost my self with her.
Woman, you told me what I needed to hear and I am through with her. You know, it was mere curiosity that caused me to even meet the two of them and I fell for her when we met. So much for love at first sight, at least with a married woman.
Scott
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